Post Traumatic Communication How To Deal With Infedelity..... How To Trust Him Again...?

How to deal with infedelity..... How to trust him again...? - post traumatic communication

My girlfriend of a year cheated me and split the next day, 1 night, every move outside of our house, "he said today, was marked by the father, maybe I am a single mother. We have long separated for 3 months without a connection, we have try once again and keep them in a sincere effort, but not always say what led to her infedelity, why, why is it again or any other details. It was like the MESS under the carpet in the kitchen and its fine now, because he has to do with it or circumvent swept. As I see it constantly and deal with it, is involved in my imagination, so yup, All Hell Breaks Loose and find myself in panic. Today, I read that people are less cautious, often in a state of post-traumatic stress left. I feel like a nut, sometimes things are beautiful and happy, the other (not identified in 4 hours and no longer works for 3 .....) I love, but The Love has changed how we work there?